Tag: relationship

princessbubblegumandjustice:

fullten:

fullten:

If you need drama in a relationship, otherwise you’re bored and will lash out,

You’re a shit person.

A shitty boring person, who obviously isn’t ready for a relationship

It’s way too normalized to start fights to “spice” up a relationship. That being in a comfortable relationship, is somehow boring, when like, that’s the fucking goal.

Actually healthy ways to spice up a relationship:

  • Communicate with your partner and explain that you don’t enjoy the level of predictability in your relationship 
  • Find a new hobby to do together
  • Find a new place to go for date night or go someplace different each time 
  • Go on vacation together
  • Surprise them with breakfast in bed
  • Have sex in a new position or explore a different sexual interest
  • Redecorate or start a small home improvement project 
  • Find a new romantic ritual like slow dancing or writing love letters
  • Get in touch with your inner child: go to an arcade, a trampoline park, an amusement park, or a water park! 
  • Spend time with other couples or go on double dates
  • Clean together to look at all your old junk and maybe even organize a garage sale
  • Start working out or eating healthier together
  • Find a book to read or show to watch at the same time
  • Have a no-tech night and just enjoy each others company for the evening and maybe even make it a weekly thing 
  • Recreate your first date or how you met
  • Have a spa day at a resort or make your home a spa
  • Get tattooed at the same time (but I recommend not getting matching tattoos, getting their name, or getting your anniversary)
  • Or alternatively get matching tattoos, their name, or your anniversary drawn on you in henna or something else temporary
  • Shower together
  • Extreme sports: try sky diving, bungee jumping, or cliff diving together! 
  • Prepare a meal from scratch together
  • Volunteer together
  • Go star gazing
  • Make a collage of your pictures
  • Make two lists: one of all the movies your partner is shocked you haven’t seen and one of all the movies you’re shocked your partner hasn’t seen and either have a movie night or slowly work your way through the lists
  • Take lessons together: learn how to surf, dance, or paint together!
  • Go camping
  • Make tie-dye shirts
  • Plan a picnic
  • Dress your partner for your date and have them dress you
  • Draw each other, and don’t worry if you’re not artistically inclined! That’s half the fun!
  • Have a nerf gun battle
  • Learn together by going to a museum
  • Take a language class together, now you don’t have to worry about sounding silly or trying to find someone to practice with!
  • Join ancestry or some other service and map out both of your families
  • Basically anything except for starting problems in your relationship out of boredom